Last March Lee was struck by the randomness on the internet, and used the experience as an opportunity to springboard between a varieties of topics. A year later BDSM Roulette is back with such subjects as “outing” of other people, anal play, leather contests and the difference between being “serious” and “solemn” in our sexuality. However, the absurdity of the internet also explodes in the form of “Sexy Platypus,” and of course, lemon whores. Join us as we explore human erotica through a roll of the dice and dive into subjects ranging from thoughtful to full of laughter (and sometimes both).
Amidst out fears, scenes and huge projects, each of us has an opportunity for mindfulness and gratitude. Lee takes us on a journey through his fundraising project for “More Shibari You Can Use: Passionate Rope Bondage and Intimate Connection” and the full-color revised edition of “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé.” Along the way he talks about how each of us deserves the rope and play we want, that connecting with our partners is awesome, that there is amazing blessings in vulnerability, and that all of this can be both scary and fun at once. Get your own ebooks, print books, original art, private classes and more by visiting the link found in the notes or at PassionAndSoul.com.
Whether it is something silky and secret we are wearing underneath it all, or something shiny we are strutting for the world to see, clothing is a powerful tool for erotic exploration. After discussing roleplaying and exhibitionism, surrender and empowerment, Lee dives into the topic of fetish wear and sexy clothes for men. Having clothes (or their removal) serve a role in our sex lives is something that everyone should have a chance to enjoy. Get dressed up, get dressed down, and dress for desire!
Ever have erotic or personal connections that leave you drained? People you engage with that wire you up, or leave you feeling icky? Let’s look into energetic compatibility, resonance, compatibility, and consensual psychic vampirism. Lee Harrington takes us on a journey through the question of what to be aware of when connecting on an energetic level with others – in scenes, in sex, and in life at large.
It’s the time of year where pumpkin pies start to come out and folks stuff themselves with food – so let’s talk about food, food play, and the wide variety of ways it compares to our sexual journey as a whole. We will remember our favorite foods (and kisses), discuss wet and messy play, explore blindfolded feeding and even get to consider food as BDSM. Let’s play with food, be present with one another, examine our memories, and find other truths about ourselves using food as a metaphor as well.
Though Halloween is a month and a half away, Lee just decorated for the season. It’s time to pause this time of year to reflect on the history of the kink community through the lens of those who have passed away, and our community history. From AIDS to accidents to time that has elapsed, we remember those who have gone before, clearing the way for folks to dress up in sexy dominatrix costumes during this holiday season. With sweet and sad stories alike, he dares you to take up the challenge of not forgetting where the current kink communities came from.
It’s summertime! Having done kinky camping events for well over a decade, a bit obsessively so, Lee takes you through his packing lists, proposals, concepts and ideas on how to make your kinky camping as successful as possible. Is licking bug spray a good idea? Do people really bring inflatable hot tubs when they camp? What can you do in the woods that you can’t do in the dungeon? What do I wear? Sharing stories along the way, we journey from backyard BBQs to outdoor fetish festivals, and remind each other to stay hydrated.
With Shibaricon the week this podcast goes/went live, Lee takes some time to reflect how far the event has gone since its debut in 2004. 10 events later, it has become the hub of a rope bondage community that did not exist before its inception, speaking volumes about how if just one person has a dream, and takes actions towards it, it can change so many lives. From memories and funny stories to connection and play, Lee dances with rope on his lips and lays out a few bits to chew on along the way. Episode Notes Rigger Mortis recounts the history of Shibaricon- https://fetlife.com/users/600157/posts/1326467 (My memory has confused the details of 3 years of events it seems, and conflated a few details.... please read his fantastic summary!)